Unfortunately there are people in this world who take their frustrations out on people who aren't the cause of their frustrations or hurt. I've been one of those people.
I didn't realize I was doing it until I saw the hurt on the person's face, and that hurt me. It then caused me to think of all the people who'd hurt or caused me harm, if they were taking frustrations from their hurt of a bad experience out on me.
Yeah, some people are just evil and have no social conscience, then there are others who don't intentionally hurt. They are subconsciously, and sometimes unknowingly hurting others as a defense mechanism in efforts to keep people at 'arms length' in efforts not to be hurt again. The ole' 'I'll get them before they get me', and most often times that's not the other persons intention.
Look.....we've all experienced some type of hurt, and will experience more hurts. As we experience them we should learn from them, and part of the learning is not to cause others to feel the way we did when we were hurt. No, don't let folks run over you; guard your heart, protect yourself......but don't be like the one(s) who hurt you.
I encourage you not to be a victimizing victim......thatsurthurty.
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