Sunday, May 19, 2024

Trust

There are many people who say they desire to be in a relationship with a person who is independent, not realizing or understanding that independent person can live alone and; have the ability and/or desire to be, or, live without another person.

An independent person most often times does not rely on or ask others for help, as well as seeks out and creates their own resource(s).  This is one of many elements of protection in being independent; it keeps one from being hurt as they lack trust of others.

This can cause issues in relationships as once, there was one, now there are two and they are co-dependent of each other to become one.  Learning to trust(depend) on someone to love you as you love yourself is not always as easy as it seems, but, it doesn't have to be made to be hard. 

Your desire of one who is independent requires your sacrifice to be dependent on. #thatsurthurty



Monday, May 13, 2024

Freedom in Writing

I encourage all who are reading this Blog Entry to write.  Journal.  Write out your thoughts whatever they are.  You don't have to share with anyone what you're writing unless you want to.  That's a part of the freedom in Journaling.

Another element of freedom when Journaling is that you can be totally honest with yourself in all things.  Those things that noone else knows about. Only you.  Journaling is accountability to yourself of things you've done, haven't done, want to do, shouldn't do, have done, etc. 

Another freedom of Journaling is being able to reference back to certain times and events of your life, as well as using those reference points to guide your present and manifest your future .  Again....I encourage you to write. Journal. Heal. Be accountable before it's your time, to give account. #thatsurthurty

Freedom in Writing: Thurty's Shorts

Monday, May 6, 2024